{"id":5809,"date":"2020-01-16T08:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-01-16T00:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jeffangiegoh.com\/?p=5809"},"modified":"2021-10-15T11:21:22","modified_gmt":"2021-10-15T03:21:22","slug":"240-remembering-william-chong-who-fought-the-good-fight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jeffangiegoh.com\/?p=5809","title":{"rendered":"240. Remembering William Chong, Who Fought the Good Fight"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><sup>5\u00a0<\/sup>Gracious is the\u00a0Lord, and righteous;<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0our God is merciful.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> <sup>6\u00a0<\/sup>The\u00a0Lord\u00a0protects the simple;<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0when I was brought low, he saved me.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> <sup>7\u00a0<\/sup>Return, O my soul, to your rest,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0for the\u00a0Lord\u00a0has dealt bountifully with you.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><sup>15\u00a0<\/sup>Precious in the sight of the\u00a0Lord<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"color: #008080;\"> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0is the death of his faithful ones<\/span>.<\/strong> [<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Psalm 160:5-7, 15<\/span>, <em>NRSV<\/em>]<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/media.karousell.com\/media\/photos\/products\/2019\/07\/08\/chinese_calligraphy_1562595643_d6403a9c_progressive.jpg\" alt=\"Image result for \u5fcd in Chinese calligraphy\" width=\"268\" height=\"357\" \/>\u00a0<a style=\"font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.jeffangiegoh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/William-Chong.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-5812\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jeffangiegoh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/William-Chong-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"267\" height=\"356\" \/>\u00a0<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.artnet.com\/WebServices\/images\/ll04554lldDCRJFgX31E3CfDrCWvaHBOcEvFF\/xing-yun-%E8%A1%8C%E4%B9%A6%E2%80%9C%E5%BF%8D%E2%80%9D-%E9%95%9C%E5%BF%83-%E6%B0%B4%E5%A2%A8%E7%BA%B8%E6%9C%AC.jpg\" alt=\"Image result for pictures of \u5fcd\" width=\"287\" height=\"356\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William Chong was a man of Christian vision and tenacity. He was an intrinsically good person. His operative code word was <em>endure<\/em> &#8211; <strong>\u5fcd<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">From the time his sickness was first diagnosed three years earlier, to the afternoon of 6 January 2020 when he breathed his last, we walked closely with William and Susan, his wife of fifty years. Throughout that time, we had many private morning-coffees together. The couple was known for keeping fit, the regularity of their morning walks putting many of us to shame. Also, for more than fifty years in ministry, the\u00a0energies\u00a0of the indefatigable William knew no bounds. With that background, it was a long and painful process watching William\u2019s strength on the wane, his body dwindling, his energy sapped. For him as for us, this whole thing \u2013 a devastating cancer \u2013 was never acceptable, always \u201cwhy so sudden?\u201d And so, even though we were privately hurting for him as the ravages of sickness took their inevitable toll, we never had the heart to let him sense how hard it was for us to witness the increasingly weakened state of this dear old friend. Privately, we were already going through an extended season of mourning long before the final \u201cend\u201d. But through it all, never was his full stature as the towering Christian that he was in the local faith community ever diminished in the eyes of people like ourselves who had known him well and appreciated the immense contributions he brought to the community. Instead, we were constantly amazed to behold, even after sickness had so severely depleted his body, and his steps occasionally became unsteady, so much was still intact in his spirit. William\u2019s Christian vision, and the tenacious clarity with which he held it, subsisted to the very end.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 15px;\">1. Christian Vision and Tenacity<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Christianity to William is so simple, at least in theory: <em>we pray according to what we believe, and we act according to what we pray<\/em>. Putting that into practice can be a lot more difficult of course. But William made it all look so easy, so natural. My long association with him tells me that three things, amongst others, motivated him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">First, is The Lord\u2019s Prayer (Matt. 6:9-13; Lk. 11:2-4). This prayer is both Jesus\u2019 personal way of praying and the prayer he taught his disciples. William\u2019s active services to the faith community suggest that he had long understood the <strong><em>interior consciousness<\/em><\/strong> of the Lord Jesus transmitted to his followers through this prayer. The perspective of that consciousness is on building <strong><em>the kingdom of God<\/em><\/strong>, <strong><em>on earth as it is in heaven<\/em><\/strong>. Jesus\u2019 prayer begins with the consciousness of his communion with God and all creation. He is aware of his solidarity and co-humanity with all (Our), and that he and us all are receiving life from a loving Ultimate Source (Father). In his prayer, Jesus does not begin on earth, and yet his kingdom-mission is on earth. All this clarifies the Christian calling for William and us: <strong><em>we are called to be conscious of Jesus\u2019 consciousness, so that if we cultivate the same heaven-consciousness that Jesus had, it will drive us down to earth with the kingdom agenda of God and Christ<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Secondly, William had a special fondness for praying what is often referred to as \u201cthe Jesus Prayer\u201d: \u201c<strong><em>Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d He even had a book on this prayer. It is in substance taken from the prayer of the humble and penitent publican, in contrast to the conceited and self-referential prayer of a Pharisee who had no need of God (Luke 18: 9-14). Of the penitent publican, Jesus spoke approvingly and declared that he went home justified. Saying the Jesus-Prayer often, William stayed conscious of his own inadequacies without God. Like the humble publican, he dialogued from the heart with God, as &#8220;a spiritual breathing of the soul&#8221;. Likewise, Thomas A Kempis\u2019 <em>Imitation of Christ<\/em> was an all-time favourite of his.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thirdly, William was also fond of the image of Mary of Bethany sitting at the feet of Jesus (Luke 10:39), listening carefully to the Word-made-flesh, interiorising the wisdom of God. Giving priority to <em>that<\/em>, Mary had done the <strong><em>one thing<\/em><\/strong> divinely categorized as <strong><em>necessary<\/em><\/strong> and had, in the approving words of the Lord, chosen the better part.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Keeping in constant touch with the Lord through prayers, maintaining a humble disposition, and opening a listening and welcoming heart for the Word \u2013 all this had crystallized in a deep spirituality in William. The resulting reality was that not only did William keep in touch with God throughout his adult Christian life, thereby seeing God\u2019s will in kingdom-advancement on earth, but he tapped into the mercy, the strength and resources of God for his ministry.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">As it is with people of deep spirituality, William was enabled to hear, to feel, and to take serious cognizance of the Lord\u2019s agenda. This agenda, declared by Jesus at the synagogue upon his return \u201cin the power of the Spirit\u201d from his baptism and temptations, announced that Jesus\u2019 mission from God was to bring good news to <strong><em>people who are not powerful<\/em><\/strong> in the world. These are the Poor, the captives, the blind, and the oppressed (Luke 4:18-19).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">People may not know that William lived through serious poverty in early childhood. Had his mother not humbled herself and borrowed money from neighbours to pay the exam fees, William would not have sat his Form Five public examination. I can never forget a \u201csimple\u201d story he told us.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">He came home from school one day and there was \u201cno rice to eat\u201d (\u6ca1\u996d\u597d\u5403) for lunch. So he filled a cup with water, added a handful of water biscuits and some sugar and that served as lunch that day for a growing young man.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">God, it seems, is not only fair, but had His own idea as to what to do for William. To those who have gone through poverty in their early years, God would bless them with <strong><em>grit<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; that powerful spirit of determination\u00a0to face problems in life squarely, to tackle them logically, and to resolve them patiently. In the end, life would on reflection turn out to be truly so much more meaningful than if one had not experienced poverty and hardship. As poverty and hardship build character and grow heart, William grew up making the most of what life dished out to him, in Christian upright living and hard work\u00a0<em>and<\/em>\u00a0with <em><strong>compassion for the less fortunate in society<\/strong><\/em>. The desire to work towards providing educational opportunity for children of the Poor and proper in-depth formation for the Laity in the Church would always remain close to his heart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In the process, well, the lack of funding did actually deny him the opportunity to study law in London even though he was accepted for enrolment, or to study in campus any formal degree course for that matter. Nor did he have a real opportunity to do serious theological studies in a Theology Faculty anywhere. But then, look, with grit and giftedness:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William posted a brilliant career with the Royal Malaysia Police, got married and raised a family and his son Kevin becoming a London-trained accountant, built a nice home, took good care of his widowed-mother and younger siblings along the way, stood head and shoulders above everyone else in selfless services to the faith community, and lived a very decent life of which he had every reason to be proud.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William became a first class organizer, the best the local church had ever known. His massive services covered both parish and diocesan levels, chairing councils and in trade-mark fashion, always systematically planned and effectively executed projects with accountability and foresight. His first major project was to chair the central organizing committee for the preparation of the first ever Eucharistic Congress in the Malaysia-Singapore-Brunei region in 1989 (\u201cEC1989\u201d), celebrated by the Archdiocese of Kuching.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William read extensively. Proficient in English, he would speak and write a whole lot better than many who had had formal tertiary education.\u00a0His insatiable appetite for learning and a keen eye on solid human development made him a truly <strong><em>educated<\/em><\/strong> man.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William progressed from an assistant-to-priests as a young man to an adult Catholic with a clear vision for what the Church ought to be. He read theology books and official church documents at night (\u201cThey are tough to read and I may not understand everything, but I try to read as much as I can\u201d) and was theologically more sound and articulate than many who had studied theology in colleges. He was a Catholic of substance.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Having understood the kingdom-agenda of the Lord Jesus, William was the co-founder of several kingdom-promoting associations, one of which is the very impressive Lasallian Foundation. Members of this Foundation seriously seek to bring education to the last, the lost and the least. Up to the time of his passing, William remained an active consultant to this Foundation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In pursuit of both Bro. Albinus\u2019 and his own wishes, William for a number of years until sickness intervened, actively promoted and saw to all the practical arrangements for the Theological Formation Programme for the Laity which I conduct.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">For more than half a century till his passing at age 75 years, William obeyed and lived Jesus\u2019 gospel of service, never bragging or claiming credit for services rendered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Writing to William from London before he died in 1974, Bishop Karl (Charles) Reiterer, MHM, the Vicar Apostolic of Kuching at the time, thanked William for his commendable commitment and services to the faith community. He went on to remark that if there were a few more Catholics like William, the local church would be truly alive indeed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">And at William&#8217;s deathbed, Archbishop Simon Poh thanked him on behalf of the local church for his enduring commitment and services.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 15px;\">2. An Intrinsically Good Person and a Perfect Gentleman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Christian ministry starts at home, and William was a real family man. From the way he and Susan spoke so often and so fondly of their son Kevin, Lillian the daughter in law and the two grandchildren, it is delightfully clear to see that in old age, William was blessed with the genuinely caring consolation of his descendants.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The late Bro. Albinus was close to William, trusting him implicitly in all things, including his personal effects down to the purchase of a belt after a serious weight-loss.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In death, a person\u2019s true legacy becomes apparent. William always dressed and conducted himself properly. A real gentleman of Christian compassion, he has earned respect all round. Remarks from his friends point so strongly in the direction of admiration for and regrets over the loss of an intrinsically good man.\u00a0An ex-colleague remarked distinctly: \u201cAs a boss, he never got angry with us, nor ever scolded us.\u201d\u00a0And when a sister of his said to me at one of the funeral wakes that her brother was a really good person who took great care of his siblings, a \u201c<em><strong>better man you cannot find<\/strong><\/em>\u201d, I heard echoes of what I have had the privilege of knowing for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">We were privileged to witness not only William\u2019s kingdom-advancement works, but his work ethics as well. When the gentlemanly Fr. Nicholas Ng, who had ministered to William during his sickness, came to anoint him for the last time in the morning of 6<sup>th<\/sup> January, he said with a smile: \u201cWell, as we all know about William, in everything that he did, there was a beginning and there was a proper ending (\u6709\u5934\u6709\u5c3e). I would like to do the same for him.\u201d And William&#8217;s dear old beloved Fr. Lawrence Chua, despite physical discomfort, came twice to the house during the brief few days when the end of an old friend was imminent. And when the greatly respected 91-year-old Archbishop Peter Chung, a planned-visit on whom by William and us was intervened by William\u2019s illness, heard about William\u2019s passing, he at once sent his condolences and a prayer for the repose of the soul of this faithful son of the Church.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Amazingly, in a way intelligible only in terms of divine grace and mercy, William died without struggle, without any physical pain (incredibly throughout the entire last three years as well), in peace and serenity, in the loving presence of family, relatives and friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 15px;\">3. Christian Endurance<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William was a man of outstanding patience and non-violence. He was in every way a traditional Chinese with the best of the Chinese culture in him. For one who was not schooled in the Chinese classics, William\u2019s proud literary collection included one particular scroll of Chinese calligraphy given him by the late Tan Shao Pai, a highly respected old Catholic of an earlier generation. That scroll carries a single word in Chinese &#8211;<strong>\u5fcd<\/strong>, translated as to <strong><em>endure<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">William\u2019s Christian endurance extended to several dimensions. At the level of social interaction, William displayed a very high threshold of endurance and tolerance, absorbing a great deal of \u201cnonsense\u201d, \u201cdisrespect\u201d and \u201cinconsiderate treatment\u201d without the need to hit back. It is a quality quite unattainable by many, especially myself, and pretty awesome to behold. William\u2019s virtue and spiritual maturity in this regard is all the more incredible when you realize that as a young man, his temper had once driven him to overturn a table in public.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">At the level of Christian discipleship, I can truly say without reservation that William, much like his good friend and mentor Bro. Albinus before him, had \u201c<strong><em>fought the good fight to the end\u201d, \u201crun the race to the finish\u201d, and \u201ckept the faith<\/em><\/strong>\u201d (2 Timothy 4:7). Now the crown of uprightness awaited him. A delightful scene towards the very end was indelibly etched on our memory. As I sat at his bedside holding his right hand and talking to him about all this, even though he was too weak to open his eyes, he would open his mouth and utter the word \u201cfight\u201d in agreement, his left arm raised as high as his sapped energy could. It was a tear-filled and graceful time (for him and for me and others standing around) of mixed emotions of the joy of triumph and the inevitable sadness over the closure of a humble, and towering example of Christian life, service and leadership.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">At the close of one life, there are bound to be regrets over some unfinished symphonies. Our shared regrets with William include planned trips to the Holy Land and China, and certain theology courses he had wanted me to teach the laity. Of the latter, he had repeatedly indicated his desire for a course on Ecclesiology. To mention that is to pay tribute to an untrained and yet sound theological mind which was constantly on a St Anselm <strong><em>faith seeking understanding<\/em><\/strong> trajectory, seeking better and deeper understanding of what it meant to be Church. And, I am leaving this till the last: in the last couple of years of his life, William was incessantly bothered by the fact that he could not realize his dream of setting up a pastoral institute for the in-depth formation of the Catholic laity in the Archdiocese of Kuching.\u00a0A burden he carried like a cross, William\u2019s vision was unmatched in the local church community. It certainly adds a different dimension to the spiritual comment by another old friend Fr. Cosmas Lee (the \u201cbrain\u201d behind EC1989) on William\u2019s death: \u201c<strong>Full life. Good to go carrying the Cross<\/strong>.\u201d In life and in death, William was a close follower of Jesus of Nazareth, the Suffering-Servant Messiah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Lord, may William, your faithful servant-leader, rest in peace. Amen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Copyright \u00a9 Dr. Jeffrey &amp; Angie Goh, January 2020. All rights reserved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You are most welcome to respond to this post. Email your comments to <strong><u><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"mailto:jeffangiegoh@gmail.com\">jeffangiegoh@gmail.com<\/a>.<\/u><\/strong> You can also be dialogue partners in this <em>Ephphatha Coffee-Corner Ministry<\/em> by sending us questions for discussion.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>5\u00a0Gracious is the\u00a0Lord, and righteous; \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0our God is merciful. 6\u00a0The\u00a0Lord\u00a0protects the simple; \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0when I was brought low, he saved me. 7\u00a0Return, O my soul, to your rest, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0for the\u00a0Lord\u00a0has dealt bountifully with you. 15\u00a0Precious in the sight of the\u00a0Lord \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0is the death of his faithful ones. 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